Let Have Chta. How Important Is Giving A 'Mouth Work' Important In A Relationship?

Though many research said that going 'down below' on your partner may not be important, BUT they still said it is VERY important in a relationship because it has helped spice up many relationships.

My curiosity to this topic grew when many women I have talked this with say their men ask for it and rarely go down on them. And from several comments on similar topics, many Nigerian guys seem to prefer 'taking' than 'giving'. Which still brings me to why is that?

This question of for BOTH male and females in relationships. So, if you love a woman/man, but she/he doesn't want to go down on you, would you dump her and find someone else and if your married is that a reason to cheat?

...And why do most guys think licking the lollipop is the most important element in a relationship?