Wife of the vice
presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Mrs.
Dolapo Osinbajo, is the founder of Women’s Helping Hands, a
non-governmental organisation passionate about empowering battered women
and victims of sexual abuses. She spoke with SUNDAY OGUNTOLA on her
husband’s aspiration, her family life and the Nigeria of her dream.
Excerpts:
What was your initial reaction when you
heard that your husband was going to be nominated as All Progressives
Congress (APC) vice presidential candidate?
My initial reaction was that of apprehension.
Why?
Because I knew I would have to share him
with others, I mean political associates, official functions and all
the likes. And I would rather have him to myself alone. So, that was my
initial reaction.
So, how were you able to overcome that?
I guess I realised that the handwriting
was always on the wall; that this was what he is being prepared for. If
you look at what he has done over the years, you will realise that the
Lord was preparing him for a time like that. I realised and remembered
that. That put my fears aside and I told myself I had to allow the Lord
do what He wants to do with him.
I shouldn’t be selfish but release him
to accomplish for Nigeria what God has been putting in his heart. His
works, like I said, over the years and his experiences in public life
have all pointed to the fact that he is a man for a season like this.
So, are you comfortable so far?
With what?
With how the campaigns have gone so far and how the APC is moving on?
Comfortable is not a word you can use at
this point, considering what the nation is right now. But in terms of
the campaign, yes, things are being done in a noble way. Things are
different from what they used to be in the past. I believe that things
will take a turn for the best for this nation.
Do you believe he is up to the task ahead?
I don’t think I am in the best position
to answer that (laughter). But I think he is the best man in the whole
world. One thing I can say is that we have been married for the past 25
years and every day, I get to respect him the more. He is very kind and
lovely. I have never met a man more caring than he is. He is the most
caring person I have met.
There are things Nigerians don’t know about him that only you can tell us about. What are some of these things?
Well, I will just say he is a lovely and
kind man. He loves to a fault. He cares a lot. His life is all about
caring and giving. When he was Attorney-General of Lagos, he proved that
over and over again. Our church currently runs two free schools through
his initiatives because we are interested in people.
One has run for a year and the other one
just started. In the school, there is no tuition, registration or any
fee. They are entirely free. They don’t pay for books, stationeries,
uniforms or feeding. One of the schools is in Obanikoro, while the other
is in Okota in Lagos.
We also run a soup kitchen in the church
that we run now and the one we ran before. The soup kitchen provides
food for the students every day. No child gets to the schools except he
or she is poor. So, these are some of the many things he does for people
to show his love.
Won’t these stop if he gets elected as Vice President?
Not at all. If you know my husband, he
is a thorough and meticulous person. He doesn’t get into something until
he has figured everything out. What will happen is that he would be
able to do more as a Vice President on a larger scale.
The ones that he is going now, he has
structures in place to handle them whether he is around or not. They are
not just about him because other members of the church contribute. He
has people everywhere running stuff that are from his heart.
I believe if he is elected, he will have more opportunities and platform to do much more for the people.
As a very private woman, how are you preparing for life as a public figure?
Honestly, I can’t tell. There is nothing
I am doing or intend to do. I just trust God for grace. I am in His
hands and I believe He won’t take me there and leave me stranded. I am
just in His hands for whatever He wants to do with me.
Your book, They call me Mama, details
your activities with street urchins in Lagos Island. What on earth was
driving you to have anything to do with such people?
(Pauses) I don’t even know how to answer
that question. That was just my life at that time. That was my own
expression at that time. I am really thrilled I could reach those people
in many parts of Lagos. When we started, they started introducing us to
their friends in other parts of Lagos.
They were really my family members at
that time and for me, Under Bridge was the safest place in Lagos. I felt
so safe there that you couldn’t just move any close to me once I was
there. The boys loved me so much they wouldn’t allow even a fly come
close to me. For me, it was the safest place in Lagos.
Do you still get to see or meet some of those boys?
Of course, I do. For the book
presentation, I asked two of them to come so that people could see what
we have done. One of them just got married in Benin and introduced his
girlfriend to me before they married. He is now such a gentleman. He
couldn’t even talk the way he used to before. The other one we took
under the bridge at 11. Today, he has graduated on scholarship. We had
many of such transformation stories coming from these boys. They were
good guys who only found themselves in situations they couldn’t help and
I am glad God used us to lift them up.
When they finally realised who you are, how did they feel?
Well, they just knew I was their mama,
someone who cares so much about them. They didn’t know my background or
husband’s status in the society. I was only giving them lunch, releasing
them from police stations and visiting them in prisons.
So, I was just someone who loved them.
Then, one day, one of them came across a newspaper cutting of a picture
we took during the presentation of a book written in my husband’s honour
when he left as Attorney-General. The function was at Muson Centre. So,
one of them saw the picture and they couldn’t get to believe it was me.
That Sunday, they showed me the
newspaper and wanted to know if it was me. I had to persuade them that
yes it was me but it has not changed anything. Immediately, they started
feeling uncomfortable and I assured them that I care for them,
regardless of the differences in our status. Until then, they just
called and saw me as mama, a church pastor that they could talk to and
run to with any challenge or trouble.
Supposing you become the First Lady to the Vice President, what new initiatives will you bring to the office?
There is no office of First Lady to the Vice President.
But you will be playing some roles, won’t you?
The only role I will play is to look
after my family, especially my husband, so that he can concentrate and
do the works committed to him. That, to me, is the only assignment
expected of me. There is nothing more. As long as I can help my husband
to do a good job for the nation as a mother and wife, I am done.
What is happening to your legal practice?
I studied law but never practised. Studying law helped me to understand my husband’s stories and cases when he returns home.
How can you convince an ordinary,
average woman out there that your husband is deserving of her vote and
those of her family members?
All I will just say is that he won’t let
them down. He is a good, caring man. If he could take care of me well
at a personal level, he will look after women more than well if he is
elected.
If he succeeds in becoming Vice President, what do you imagine will happen to Nigeria?
I sincerely believe there will be a
great turnaround. He will do Nigeria and Nigerians good. He will change
things and will never cheat or shortchange them.
Do you believe he will win this election?
I believe so with all of my heart.
Not minding he is contesting against the incumbents?
Yes, not minding that. I believe change is coming and Nigerians will witness it through the APC.
How is your typical, average day like lately?
I don’t have an average day because what
I want to do determines how the day runs. I have now two shelters for
battered women and victims of sexual abuses. One is on the Island and
the other on the Mainland.
It is a non-governmental organisation
called Women’s Helping Hands and we get to hear heart-breaking stories.
One is that of a woman whose husband held down and battered with hot
iron. She was so scary when we saw her.
The Nation
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